When You Visit

Frequently Asked Questions

What should I wear?

We want you to feel comfortable, both in the Church and as you walk around the city! After all, we are thrilled that you're joining us and want you to be more focused on the service than what you're wearing. On the rare day in SF that it's warm, it's not uncommon to see people wearing shorts, and a shirt. Others prefer to still put on their "Sunday best," and that's fine too! However, we do request that shorts be of a conservative length (no “short-shorts”) and that in general, clothing be respectable and conservative.

How do I get to Notre Dame des Victoires?

Our parish is located at 566 Bush St. San Francisco, CA 94108

Where should I park?

The most convenient parking is located inside the Sutter-Stockton garage directly across the street. On-street parking in the area is very difficult to find.

Where do my children go?

We are always thrilled to see young ones at Mass! The kids are the future of our church and we welcome them with open arms. Feel free to step outside to regroup and return to the sanctuary, if you feel like that would be beneficial. Relax and don't worry about every tiny peep.

I’m not Catholic, how do I know when to sit, stand and kneel?

There’s no need to be self-conscious about the postures and responses used during worship. Most visitors just follow the lead of our parishioners or join bring a friend.

I’m not Catholic, is it okay for me to participate in communion?

Communion, or The Eucharist, is the most intimate expression of our faith. Catholics believe that the host is literally the body of Christ, transformed from bread by the priest presiding over the service. Most evangelicals think of Communion as symbolic, so it makes sense that they are not as strict about having the right relationship with it as Catholics and Orthodox Christians who believe it is a sacrament and the true presence of Christ. So, if you are not Catholic, we ask that you not receive communion. However, those not receiving the Body of Christ and Precious blood are invited to come forward with their hands crossed over their chests for a special blessing.

Am I expected to put money into the offering?

If you are visiting with us, we don't expect you to put money into the offering, and you are welcome to just let it pass you by. If you consider our parish your church home, we'd love for you to prayerfully consider giving to our parish on a weekly basis. You can give by check or cash during the service, or you can sign up for online giving here.